Showing posts with label sharing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sharing. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

The Small Things

We have been so busy lately that I just haven't had the energy to blog...so many things I could post and so many pictures. Sigh.

As I race around...town, the house, in my head...I still try to appreciate all the small things. Obviously, I'm thankful for the big things, like my heavenly Father, Super Dave, Sissy, JT, family, friends, health...

So, just like they say "not to sweat the small stuff", don't miss the small things either. Some of the small things I appreciate are:
  • hot coffee first thing in the morning
  • quiet time reading
  • cuddling with my little boy during the day
  • cuddling with my little girl at bedtime
  • keeping updated through face*book
  • my soft, red throw
  • having a lap cat, purring in my lap
  • the wonderful scents from my warmers
  • that my friends laugh at the same things as I do
  • watching JT sing when he thinks no one is listening
  • looking at Sissy...in the car or while she plays
  • the beautiful pictures Sissy draws
  • the many funny things JT does...daily
  • watching tv with my man
  • laughing with Super Dave...our sense of humor is, well, in sync
  • having Sissy in the kitchen cooking with me
  • driving in my 'Nox" with the sunroof open
  • listening to music...of all flavors
  • my comfy bed
  • my soft, beautiful kitties

Goodness, I could go on, but my moment to sit still is almost over. How did I catch a few minutes? Didn't cook. :)

Until next time...Momma Wolg

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Second Snow of 2011

Hello from the frozen tundra.
Well, North Texas (as well as most of the US) was hit by a winter storm this week. We got very little snow...mostly sleet and ice. And, very LOW temperatures. So, this storm is NOT FUN to play in like the snow in 2010. It's down right FRIGID. Brrrrr!

The kids have been out of school for 3 days with the 4th tomorrow. And, it's too cold and slick to play outside. So, we've had lots of family togetherness. Super Dave even stayed home for 2 days. Lots of tv, movies and especially the Wii. Although, we had a 2 hour period of time without power. And, more than 24 hours without internet, tv and phone. Withdrawals? INDEED.

We've gone a little stir crazy. We HAD to get out for a bit. So, the kids and I ventured out with some friends today. We went to the mall for lunch and shopping (a.k.a. walking around...get some energy out). My friend was nice enough to drive all of us, albeit at about 10 mph. We made it home, safely and a little poorer. ;)

No pic's of the kids in the ice, I mean snow, yet. But here's few pictures to make you cuddle under a blanket.
Momma Wolg




Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Laughter

"He will yet fill your mouth with laughter and your lips with shouts of joy." Job 8:21
"Our mouths were filled with laughter, our tongues with songs of joy..." Psalm 126:2
"You gotta learn to laugh; it's the way to true love" from movie Michael
Laughter is the best medicine.
"What soap is to the body, laughter is to the soul." Yiddish Proverb
"Laughter is the shortest distance between two people." Victor Borge
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Simply, I LOVE laughter! It enriches my life and my relationships. It's a gift from God. Nothing uplifts my mind and spirit as laughter does. Over the years, I have learned to keep a sense of humor about most things and to laugh. Yes, sometimes I have to laugh so I won't cry. I use humor all the time, which includes the wrong time in some cases. (sorry) A 'professional' told me that I use humor to cope. Well, YES, yes I do. And, it works most of the time too. :)

I honestly think the humor and laughing has made all the difference in Super Dave's and my marriage. We laugh at the same things and each other. Just last night, I was laughing to myself as I was trying to go to sleep. Super Dave guessed correctly what I was laughing about...a funny part of a dumb movie. We can complete each other's sentences, especially when it's a quote from a song, movie or tv. :)

There's nothing like listening to my kids laugh, making them laugh (love to be "tickle monster") and laughing with them. I hope they will always keep a sense of humor and have fun.

And, I'm blessed with some great friends that I laugh with A LOT. How fun to laugh until you hurt! A couple of you have the same, sick sense of humor as I do, and this would be one reason you are my best buds. :)

My favorite is to laugh so hard that I start crying. Fortunately for me, that's pretty often. Twice in the past week. Last one was while I was watching Super Dave DANCE with Sissy, playing *Just Dance 2 on the Wii. HY.STER.I.CAL! Just today, I left a voicemail for SD of a funny clip from a movie and laughed hysterically afterward. JT joined me.

So, don't forget to laugh. Don't take things too seriously. Love life.
Momma Wolg

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Happy New Year!

Is it really 2011? I pray that my family and I, as well as you all, have a great year. I'm not much for setting new year's resolutions, but here are a few things I'm hoping for this year:


1. I would like to deepen my relationship with God, something He desires, something I desire. But, it is easier said then done. I have done pretty well this past year reading my bible and daily devotional, but I want to spend more time listening and learning. My down fall is that I can be so easily distracted...by to-do's, activities, children but especially in my mind. So many thoughts and so many personalities in there!


2. I would like to get fit. I have made some progress in the last year with the gym and eating a little better, only to fall off the wagon just before Thanksgiving. I didn't just fall off, but go ran over a few hundred times. So a few steps back and a few pounds heavier, I will get to it again. I believe it's okay to fall and more important that you get up again. I want to feel good and be healthy, allowing me to take care of my family for a long time.

3. I want to be a better Mom to my kids...more patience, much less "Mommy Dearest" moments, more time focused on them, more consistent with discipline. Literally, "God help me."


4. We want to sale our house this year and find a new one. I love our home, but I'm excited about finding a new house some where in the area. So we have started to get rid of some things and then get busy touching up the house. Hopefully, we can be in a new house by summer so the kids can start a new school together in the Fall.

5. I want to learn how to use my new camera and photo editing. I got a camera that's a little (ok, a lot) more sophisticated. So, this old dog is going to have to do some reading and practicing (playing). Luckily, my sister is a photographer and can help teach me (although, I refuse to wear a big "utility belt" looking thing like she does).

6. I plan to continue to work part-time. I'm still doing book keeping for a friend who has her own business. I LOVE IT! The work fits me so well and the flexibility allows me to be there for my kids.

7. JT will start Kindergarten in the Fall. Say it ain't so! My little baby boy will go off to school. Breaks my heart...I like him as my constant companion and small enough to cuddle. But, part of me is excited to enter into a new chapter with JT and as a family. Between preschool and myself, I hope he will be ready and excited come August.

8. I want and ask God daily that my dear friend, 3 Boy Mom, finish treatment and be completed healed from cancer FOREVER, never to return, and that she lives a long, healthy, happy life taking care of her family.

9. I want and pray for Super Dave's health. His arthritis is so painful, debilitating and tiring. It is hard to watch him struggle and hurt. He is always such a trooper, not letting arthritis slow him down from working at his job or home.

10. We WILL celebrate Super Dave's 40th birthday this summer. I look forward to welcoming him into the club and making it memorable. Must do some collaborating and planning...hee, hee, hee. Stay tuned.

11. I want to start journaling and blogging more often. Really I do. It's just hard to find the time. I already start my days (well some anyway) way too early at the gym, and I spend some quiet time in the morning in prayer and reading my bible/devotional. And, if you know me well, I am NOT a night owl, like Super Dave. I finish up my "duties" and spend some time with dear hubby and then I'm just done. But, I will try to find a way so I can share more of my thoughts (yes, I do get them) and not just pictures, and write down my thoughts and lessons learned for myself.


So, what are you hoping for this new year? Here's to a great year with A LOT of laughter. Momma Wolg

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Giving Thanks

There is so MUCH that I'm thankful for this year. The entire list would be far too long to post, BUT here's a few.


I'M THANKFUL FOR:
  • Daddy...my hubby. What would I do without him? I don't ever want to know. Enjoying growing old together, laughing along the way.

  • Sissy...my sweet girl. She adds so much to my life...like flavored creamer in my coffee. I hope we are always close as we are now. So proud of the little girl she is.

  • JT...my little buddy. I enjoy all the time we share together. He makes me laugh -- so funny and so cute!

  • My kitties...love and enjoy them so much. Cat Lover indeed!

  • My Girlfriends...I treasure my friendships and would not feel complete or content without them. For women, I believe girlfriends are necessary and by God's design.

  • Tuesday Sisters...my special circle of friends. What a blessing to have these sisters to study the bible with, laugh with, cry with, pray with, live life with, count on.

  • My Church & bible study class...I love my church and our class. They are HOME for me, Daddy and our kids.

  • My Job...I am enjoying working part-time doing book keeping for a friend with her own company. Such a good fit for me in so many ways. Blessed.

  • *Facebook...it's great to stay in touch with friends and family that otherwise I couldn't. You just can not email or call everyone to stay caught up. It's nice to see what's happening and who needs prayers, not to mention the humor.

  • My health...I feel and look OLD, but in general, I'm healthy and hope to get fit in 2011. I did okay in 2010, but fell off the 'get fit wagon' for several weeks. Back again and hope 2011 is a good year.

  • My friend, 3 Boy Mom, getting better and treatment working.

  • My God and his unconditional love and forgiveness...I'm not worthy and continue to fail time and time again. But, I know He is there no matter what.

Momma Wolg

Monday, November 22, 2010

Random

Just a few random, fun pictures from the last week or two. My family! They always keep me laughing.

JT is an Indian for Thanksgiving.
I refrained from posting the full length shot. Let's just say his Indian name is "Wear No Pants".
Rainbow out front.
But, it's not a double rainbow that bright & intense. (*youtube) LOL!

*Hedbanz Board Game
VERY funny playing with the kids.
They don't quite get that you're not supposed to help the other person win.
Hysterical every time.




Sunday, September 26, 2010

Crazy

Let me guess, you thought of me first. But, no, my time has just been a little crazy with everyone back in school and I'm back to my part-time job. It's good though, and we'll get a routine going...just not much time to blog. I have several I want to do. For now, my thoughts are primarily on those who are battling health issues.
  • My Aunt Wanda, who is in ICU, had an aneurysm after surgery on her leg and has an upcoming surgery for another stint in her neck.
  • My Dad's wife, Jackie, who has been battling a bad infection from a knee replacement. I believe all the infection is gone, and she will go back to surgery soon for the knee to be put back in.
  • Mike, a friend of ours for 20+ years, will under go surgery this week to remove a tumor from his spine. 2nd go around.
  • 3 Boy Mom, a dear friend, who is going through maintenance chemo to keep ovarian cancer from coming back.
  • My Uncle Johnny had a heart attack and had 3 stints put in. A scare, but from what I hear, he is doing much better now.

I'm ready for Fall and cooler weather. It's my favorite time of the year! I've already had a pumpkin spice latte', bought some pumpkin to make bread and made ginger crinkles.

until next time...Momma Wolg

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Tuesday Sisters

Recently, a friend, PandaMom, did a blog post about her bible study group of gals, NOGs. It inspired me to do a post about my bible study gals, the Tuesday Sisters.


This is the picture that sits at the top of our private Tuesday Sisters blog. It helps to explain our group..."Tuesday" because we meet every other Tuesday evening. "Sisters" because we are Sisters in Christ. Friends that pray with and for each other. Trust. Warmth. And, it occurred to us that we're kind of like *Steel Magnolias... princess warriors going through the ups and downs of life. (Although I'm still not sure I like that they think I'm Weezer. LOL.)

This bible study group started many years ago, either 2000 or 2001, those were the B.W. days -- Before Wolg. I didn't join until 2007. I'm so grateful that a good friend invited me to join the group and feel INCREDIBLY BLESSED to have this circle of friends in my life. I felt comfortable with this group of gals very quickly and now can't imagine life without them. There has been a few gals that have moved away, but there's still a core group through all these years. That should tell you what a special bond they have.

Here's one of the really awesome things about our group...even though we are all different personalities and have our own daily lives, I know that my sisters are praying with and for me, and if I need them, they will be there. Period. The bond of faith and love.

With our bible studies, we eat, visit, study, share and pray. It is always a special time together, whether we're laughing or crying, a time away from everything else. But, we also walk through the valleys and mountains of life together. Celebrating. Sharing burdens. Loving. Here's some of what this group has gone through, prayed through, together.

Pregnancy
Having babies :)
Infertility Treatments
Miscarriages
Wedding
Divorce
Marriages
Depression
New Jobs
Lay-offs
Parenting
Anxiety
Deaths of Loved Ones
Sickness
Surgeries
Cancer
Difficult Relationships
Birthdays
Friendships
Good Times
Family
Anniversaries
Doubt
Discovery
Praise

To my Tuesday Sisters, I repeat what I've said many times. I love each of you and thank our GOD for you. You are a blessing to me and others who see the light of Christ in you.

To everyone else, I encourage you to surround yourself with a circle of friends like this. If you do, continue to give thanks for them. If you don't, pray about it and seek it. Open your heart.

Tuesday Sisters: Allyson, Amilee, Bethany, Jaimie, Janice, Rachel, Shannon & Me/Momma Wolg




Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

The Wolg's got a new car!

We got a new car! Yipppeeee!
And, it's RED, my favorite color! I finally got a red car.
LOVE IT! LOVE IT! LOVE IT!
It's so nice to have the new car smell again. It's been 12 years since I've had a new car. And, new cars are so sophisticated now. I'm still trying to figure out all the buttons! We took it on a road trip (post coming) so I had time to study the book some. I love driving it, and Daddy is happy to have his truck back from me.
"Ain't it pretty and shiny?"

So many buttons!





Goodbye to my 300M.
I loved this car and it has been an excellent car for 12 years.

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

I Wish

    To name just a few:
    I wish for...

  • my kids to be saved sooner rather than later...as children

  • there to be no such thing as cancer and nothing in its place

  • no wars

  • to be a "hot momma" with a rock'in bod and everything in its proper place... LOL!

  • my kids to mind all the time...like me when I was a child ;) LOL

  • JT to be completely potty trained...getting much closer; can't wait for the raise & no diapers!

  • more people had perspective on what's important & and I could all the time...too much time, effort and money spent on stupid stuff

  • everyone to love cats as much as I do...I adore my kitties :)

  • my friend Allyson to have never gotten cancer, or wonder why, or if she'll get it again

  • I could have met my grandfather ("Red"), Mimi's Dad

  • to see my sister more (miss her and our girl time)

  • one of my best friends to be saved...won't stop hoping & praying

  • life to not revolve around money

  • our friends' daughter, Jordan, to not have leukemia

  • I would have had more time with my Grandma Dovie

  • that I hadn't spent so many years away from God...nothing like trying to have babies & motherhood to rock your world and bring you back

  • to be a better Mom to my kids & a better wife to my husband

  • the ability to eat and drink anything and not gain a pound...chocolate, frappucinos, mexican food

  • the ability to see myself through God's eyes

  • my daughter and son to know how much they are loved by me, Daddy and God

  • my kids to learn how unique God made them and stay true to it

  • my hubby to know how much I love and treasure him

  • my family to stay safe and healthy

  • beautiful hair and skin

  • weekly, professional spa pedicures...miss them, no job -- no nail salon

  • better discipline for my quiet time with God

Sunday, September 6, 2009

The Ragman


The Ragman, The Ragman, The Christ!

I saw a strange sight. I stumbled upon a story most strange, like nothing my life, my street sense, my sly tongue had ever prepared me for. Hush child. Hush now, and I will tell it to you.

Even before the dawn one Friday morning I noticed a young man, handsome and strong, walking the alleys of the City. He was pulling an old cart filled with clothes both bright and new, and he was calling in a clear, tenor voice: "Rags!" Ah, the air was foul and the first light filthy to be crossed by such sweet music!

"Rags! New rags for old! I take your tired rags! Rags!"

"Now, this is a wonder," I thought to myself, for the man stood six-feet-four, and his arms were like tree limbs, hard and muscular, and his eyes flashed intelligence. Could he find no better job than this, to be a ragman in the inner city?

I followed him. My curiosity drove me. And I wasn't disappointed.

Soon the Ragman saw a woman sitting on her back porch. She was sobbing into her handkerchief, sighing and shedding a thousand tears. Her knees and elbows made a sad X. Her shoulders shook. Her heart was breaking.

The Ragman stopped his cart. Quietly he walked to the woman, stepping round tin cans, dead toys, and Pampers.

"Give me your rag," he said so gently, and "and I'll give you another."

He slipped the handkerchief from her eyes. She looked up, and he lay across her palm a linen cloth so clean and new that it shined. She blinked from the gift to the giver.

Then, as he began to pull his cart again, the Ragman did a strange thing: he put her stained, snotty handkerchief to his own face; and then he began to weep, to sob as grievously as she had done, his shoulders shaking. Yet she was left behind without a tear.

"This is a wonder," I breathed to myself, and I followed the sobbing Ragman like a child who cannot turn away from mystery.

"Rags! Rags! New rags for old!"

In a little while, when the sky showed gray behind the rooftops and I could see the shredded curtains hanging out black windows, the Ragman came upon a girl whose head was wrapped in a bandage, whose eyes were empty. Blood soaked her bandage. A single line of blood ran down her cheek.

Now the tall Ragman looked upon this child with pity, and he drew a lovely yellow bonnet from his cart.

"Give me your rag," he said, tracing his own line on her cheek, and "and I'll give you mine."

The child could only gaze at him while he loosened the bandage, removed it, and tied it to his own head. The bonnet he set on hers. And I gasped at what I saw: for with the bandage went the wound! Against his brow it ran a darker, more substantial blood -- his own!

"Rags! Rags! I take old rags!" cried the sobbing, bleeding, strong, intelligent Ragman.

The sun hurt the sky now, and my eyes; the Ragman seemed more and more in a hurry.

"Are you going to work?" he asked a man who leaned against a telephone pole. The man shook his head.

The Ragman inquired, "Do you have a job?"

"Are you crazy?" sneered the other. He pulled away from the pole, revealing the right sleeve of his jacket. It was flat, the cuff stuffed into the pocket. He had no arm.

"So," said the Ragman. "Give me your jacket, and I'll give you mine."

Such quiet authority in his voice! The one-arm man took off his jacket. So did the Ragman -- and I trembled at what I saw: for the Ragman's arm stayed in his jacket, and when the other put it on, then he had two good arms, thick as tree limbs; but the Ragman had only one.

"Go to work," he said.

After that he saw a drunk, lying unconscious beneath an army blanket, an old man, hunched, wizened, and sick. He took that blanket and wrapped it round himself, but for the drunk he left a new suit of clothes.

And now I had to run to keep up with the Ragman. Though he was weeping uncontrollably, and bleeding freely at his forehead, pulling his cart with one arm, stumbling for drunkenness, falling again and again, exhausted, old, old and sick, yet he went very fast. On spider's legs he skittered through the alleys of the City, this mile and the next, until he'd come to its limits, and then he rushed beyond.

I wept to see the change in this man. I hurt to see his sorrow. And yet I needed to see where he was going in such a haste, perhaps to know what drove him so.

The little, old Ragman -- he came to a landfill. He came to a garbage dump. And then I wanted to help him in what he did, but I hung back, hiding. He climbed the hill. With tormented labor he cleared a little space on that hill. Then he sighed. He lay down. He pillowed his head on a handkerchief and a jacket. He covered his bones with an army blanket. And he died.

Oh, how I cried to witness that death! I slumped in a junked car and wailed and mourned as one who has no hope -- because I had come to love the Ragman. Every other face had faded in the wonder of this man, and I cherished him; but he died. I cried myself to sleep.

I did not know -- how could I know? -- that I slept through Friday night, and Saturday and its night, too.

But then, on Sunday morning, I was wakened by a violence. Light -- pure, hard, demanding light -- slammed against my sour face, and I blinked, and I looked, and I saw the last and the first wonder of all. There was the Ragman, folding the blanket most carefully, a scar on his forehead, but alive! And, besides that, healthy! There was no sign of sorrow or of age, and all the rags that he had gathered shined for cleanliness.

Well, then I lowered my head and, trembling for all that I had seen, I myself walked up to the Ragman. I told him my name with shame, for I was a sorry figure next to him. Then I took of all my clothes in that place and I said to him with dear yearning in my voice, "Dress me."

He dressed me. My Lord, he put new rags on me, and I am a wonder beside him. The Ragman, the Ragman, the Christ.

a modern metaphor written by *Walter Wangfrin, Jr.

Monday, August 17, 2009

True Friend

A True Friend warms you with her presence,
trusts you with her secrets
and remembers you in her prayers.
Much love to my girlfriends!
Momma Wolg

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Just Call Me "Grace"

Yesterday evening, I had an accident and hurt my foot. Don't worry, nothing big. :) Sissy asked me why I keep getting boo-boo's. Awww, that's a good question. I told her that Mommy is just not graceful. In fact, my parents nicknamed me "Grace" -- one of my nicknames anyway. Daddy came home to find me hobbling around. I told him I fell off the ladder, okay, step stool. He asked "it folded up on you?" Pause. "aaa, yeah" Busted. He asked "did you stand on the handle?" "aaaa, yeah" LOL! Just for a second...a second too long, CRASH.

For as long as I can remember, I've been having accidents, big and small. I could not begin to list them all, but here's a few for your amusement... Most of them were as a child or teenager...
  • Totalled my new 10-speed by hitting parked car
  • Broken arm -- fell off a swing set
  • Cut head open -- hit metal bar on trampoline...was before days with round bars and pads (watched Mom faint)
  • Concussion -- head vs. baseball bat, head lost (thanks big sis)
  • Sprained ankle with new "Yo-Yo's"...if you're old enough, you'll remember these shoes
  • Face plant on entry hall wall -- new house, running, dark, misjudged
  • Concussion with ride in ambulance, was out on this one -- fell off top of slide onto asphalt...was before wood chips or anything soft
  • Toothpick into knee, under kneecap...I just remember running, falling ???
  • Hit parked car being pulled on an inner tube on a snow day -- wrong street, cute boys; required surgery to fix this one later
  • In a hurry, need to iron, wearing a mini skirt, board too low...okay, surely you can figure this one out - ouch
  • while i'm thinking about burns, went to borrow an iron in dorm, still hot, talking to friend, Ouch -- there goes the lower leg this time
  • fall asleep on the beach, for a loooong time...reaction to sunburn and aloe -- ENORMOUS head, basically disfigured for about 72 hrs
  • Hurt foot when I totalled my Prelude...a mile from home
  • Many broken pinkie toes...the darn furniture keeps moving!
  • Hurt big toe -- dropped 2 liter of DP on it
  • Roller skates on steep driveway, twisted ankle

Too many examples of my gracefulness, too little time. Mom said I caused all her gray hair. I say "NOT". Have you met my Dad and Sister.

Until next time and the next injury...Momma Wolg

Monday, April 13, 2009

This is the day the Lord has made...

"To find Joy in this day, you must live within its boundaries. I knew what I was doing when I divided time into twenty-four-hour segments. I understand human frailty, and I know that you can bear the weight of only one day at a time. Do not worry about tomorrow or get stuck in the past. There is abundant Life in My Presence today."

(Jesus Calling, Sarah Young)